tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post6277802645669373439..comments2023-07-04T09:58:32.905-04:00Comments on My Tales of Life and Love After Divorce: I Want My Ex-Husband When I'm Not Fully ConsciousDivorced Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01740271601866523220noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-89219362292026433302014-04-08T19:12:42.549-04:002014-04-08T19:12:42.549-04:00It was more stubbornness than strength! But now lo...It was more stubbornness than strength! But now looking back, it was definitely an experience I'll never forget. Wishing you the best!Natasha Peternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-88126594370277319092014-04-07T23:32:25.721-04:002014-04-07T23:32:25.721-04:00Wow, I cannot imagine going from my parents' h...Wow, I cannot imagine going from my parents' house to being married... and then back on my own. Good for you, that takes real strength.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-41236907982879884092014-04-04T08:55:06.891-04:002014-04-04T08:55:06.891-04:00I can definitely relate - my ex-husband was defini...I can definitely relate - my ex-husband was definitely a sweetheart and a comforter. When we separated and I got my own apartment, I experienced a lot of anxiety, especially since it was the first time I had ever lived on my own. Since I was married at 18, I moved from living with my father to living with my husband. It was a huge adjustment and I now it's a lot better.<br /><br /><br />Thanks for sharing this great post on Turn It Up Tuesday! We love having you! :)Natasha Peternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-30459320269822447002014-04-02T15:35:11.559-04:002014-04-02T15:35:11.559-04:00Thanks Suzanne!Thanks Suzanne!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-30459022943238064872014-04-02T14:25:22.325-04:002014-04-02T14:25:22.325-04:00Time will make it happen, but uggh... it's so ...Time will make it happen, but uggh... it's so freaking hard. Wishing you lots of strength through those hard nights.Suzanne Lucasnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-66931518029559502012014-04-02T12:01:47.301-04:002014-04-02T12:01:47.301-04:00Thanks for reading, Chris. Yes, please keep giving...Thanks for reading, Chris. Yes, please keep giving your brother those hugs! Divorcing people can't get enough of them, especially when things are REALLY shitty. And please consider sharing my blog with him -- my entries from February-July 2013 may be of particular interest to him.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-1873370527021319352014-04-02T11:49:15.055-04:002014-04-02T11:49:15.055-04:00Wow. This is so brutally honest and good. My broth...Wow. This is so brutally honest and good. My brother is going through a divorce and I think he feels the same way. I try to be there for him, but there's only so much a brotherly hug will do. Hope is just around the corner, I tell him.chrisplumbnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-87033570177087522722014-04-01T23:31:54.574-04:002014-04-01T23:31:54.574-04:00Immediately after our separation I missed the litt...Immediately after our separation I missed the little things such as always getting a hug & kiss goodbye when leaving for work and the same upon returning from work. I hated what he did but missed those little things. Hang in there.Anna Dollnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-62767965597035978412014-04-01T20:16:24.710-04:002014-04-01T20:16:24.710-04:00Yeah for Pooh Bear!!!! Will be there no matter wh...Yeah for Pooh Bear!!!! Will be there no matter what, ALWAYS!!!!!Ray Fnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-23143741160479230992014-04-01T18:05:55.885-04:002014-04-01T18:05:55.885-04:00Oh, sweetie. It sucks that he is no longer there. ...Oh, sweetie. It sucks that he is no longer there. While, I don't know exactly what you are going through, because I have never been married, I can relate. Whenever I'm upset, all I ever want is Bartender Boy to comfort me like he did for so long.Theresa @ My Random Single Lifnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-69307169145385650372014-04-01T16:25:09.152-04:002014-04-01T16:25:09.152-04:00I have a very reliable companion -- Winnie the Poo...I have a very reliable companion -- Winnie the Pooh!! would be lost without him!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-51478806592780592602014-04-01T15:09:09.612-04:002014-04-01T15:09:09.612-04:00Oh this breaks my heart..... i am so sorry that h...Oh this breaks my heart..... i am so sorry that he is no longer there to comfort and lean on. It sucks!!!! Grab a teddy, one from my childhood lives on our bed, yes the hubby has NEVER kicked George out of bed....Ray Fnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-50107748816962268092014-03-31T22:12:25.493-04:002014-03-31T22:12:25.493-04:00Um I'm 34 and I totally sleep with Winnie the ...Um I'm 34 and I totally sleep with Winnie the Pooh. Every night. I slept with Pooh even when I was married! A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do, right?<br />Thank you for reading!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-87342316376832572982014-03-31T22:10:12.979-04:002014-03-31T22:10:12.979-04:00Particularly in the first year, I would be fine fi...Particularly in the first year, I would be fine fine fine, then BOOM, some random thing would have me running for bathroom to sob in a stall. It's so much better now, so hopefully you're moving in that direction.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-38115328024573874762014-03-31T13:29:43.415-04:002014-03-31T13:29:43.415-04:00I can (and do) relate. Most of the time I'm to...I can (and do) relate. Most of the time I'm totally fine, but its the moments when I'm pretty much a puddle that I miss his hugs the most. Ironically its usually something to do with him (like our shitty "chat" last night) that leads to those damn tears. Its also why I'm so damn grateful to have the animals, though I'm quite sure my dog wonders why I suddenly snuggle him in bed at times.Stephaniehttp://makingmyownsunshine.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-87148096756587202892014-03-31T09:02:21.260-04:002014-03-31T09:02:21.260-04:00I think I'm in a really good place for adjusti...I think I'm in a really good place for adjusting to life without my ex. It's these stupid middle of the night moments that make me feel like it's two years ago! Ugh. Good to know you were able to move on in a healthy way. Thank you for reading!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-25496319798898964922014-03-31T07:48:46.537-04:002014-03-31T07:48:46.537-04:00I can't understand what you are going through,...I can't understand what you are going through, but I hope it gets better. You are in my thoughts and prayers. (((hugs)))Pixie Dust Savingshttp://pixiedustsavings.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-52284395818101039542014-03-31T07:33:16.942-04:002014-03-31T07:33:16.942-04:00Oh, I know this feeling. I went through a year lon...Oh, I know this feeling. I went through a year long spell of trying to replace my ex with someone else. It was terrible. By the time I finished that gigantic mistake repeated again and again, I trusted no one in my bed. I had to relearn trust when I met my husband. I hope things get easier for you, and you give yourself time to let these feelings fade some. -Hugs-Laura Ashley Koenemanhttp://historyofawoman.comnoreply@blogger.com