tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post4539325992059218473..comments2023-07-04T09:58:32.905-04:00Comments on My Tales of Life and Love After Divorce: 4 Dates, 2 Non-Dates, and 1 Condo Offer: Could My Shit Be Changing?Divorced Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01740271601866523220noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-65487292542597737482013-08-21T22:23:01.717-04:002013-08-21T22:23:01.717-04:00It is fun. Good to challenge myself and my ideas f...It is fun. Good to challenge myself and my ideas for what "my type" is.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-17912254150236825402013-08-21T22:22:34.848-04:002013-08-21T22:22:34.848-04:00It's funny, after so long being alone (includi...It's funny, after so long being alone (including being alone but married), it feels like forever since i was last single. I remember before I realized I HAD to get divorced feeling just like that -- if I lost him, I'd lose everything. It's amazing that I felt like that since I'm feeling so strong now. <br />I've never dated before (I was single for years and then I met Max), so I have no idea if I can do Mr. Right Now either. We'll find out though! Hang in there... you'll date when you're good and ready.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-83907038273993818842013-08-21T22:04:37.807-04:002013-08-21T22:04:37.807-04:00Wow that's so cool!! I'm glad things are m...Wow that's so cool!! I'm glad things are moving so quickly! I find it hard to believe that I would ever find anybody else. I feel like "If I let go of him, I'll lose everything". I'm not really that great-looking, per se. I'd have to rely on personality, really. Unfortunately, too many dating sites are "look [at the pic] first, read later" - if at all. I don't have any confidence in myself and my ability to find someone. Of course, as I've mentioned to you before, I'm never looking for Mr. Right Now, just always Mr. Right.Amy Gurleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-10334360781113709982013-08-20T18:17:47.602-04:002013-08-20T18:17:47.602-04:00Sounds like a great few days! The dating is probab...Sounds like a great few days! The dating is probably perfect for you now - go out with a bunch of different guys, even guys you'd not normally think to date (like Jason!) just to get a feel for what you really want. Exciting!Kiranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-78058186658501828442013-08-20T15:53:57.330-04:002013-08-20T15:53:57.330-04:00I am all for blogging about anything that will ent...I am all for blogging about anything that will entertain you. There is a reason why I blog under Divorced Kat and there are no photos of me or my loved ones in my blog (which is kind of a bummer). When I started this, I promised my ex that there would be no identifying details anywhere in here in exchange for me being super honest.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-69348877342398824752013-08-20T09:25:17.818-04:002013-08-20T09:25:17.818-04:00Oh man.. this post sounds like my life in the last...Oh man.. this post sounds like my life in the last year compressed into just a few short months! My life took a positive turn starting at the end of July 2012 and went through waves of progress/stall-mate. It started with my interview at the end of July and job offer at my present job, moving up here, starting my job, starting a bit of online dating (late Sept), getting my part-time job (late Nov), finally having my divorce finalized (2/28/13!), realizing our house wasn't going to sell and beginning the foreclosure process, meeting and dating the guy I'm seeing now, and moving into my own place. It's a scary process - honestly wanting to be excited and happy about it but at the same time there's a part of your mind that's literally waiting for the other shoe to drop or for something to fall flat. Good things are happening!!<br /><br /><br />This post made me start to think about blogging about my dates/conquests over the past year; I kept track of them over time with simple notes but never completely wrote about them. Now I'm thinking about doing it in a way that won't completely tear me or them down.. I used to worry that the number of different guys I dated/went out with/non-dated was unusual but... I'm starting to think it's within the normal range. I hate that I'm such a n00b to the dating thing at 30 years old.Anna Dollnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-14599299505368378102013-08-20T09:20:39.247-04:002013-08-20T09:20:39.247-04:00That is a good point. I shouldn't question why...That is a good point. I shouldn't question why I'm drawn to him... just roll with it for now!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-23413522521041628072013-08-20T09:20:07.955-04:002013-08-20T09:20:07.955-04:00I've never gone out with a tattooed guy! And m...I've never gone out with a tattooed guy! And my ex was/is SUPER straight edge. I agree, I think there will be a little PG-13 fun coming my way soon. Obviously I will be sharing! I love to kiss and blog.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-92206100585307550272013-08-20T09:16:23.925-04:002013-08-20T09:16:23.925-04:00It really has been fun to meet these new people, n...It really has been fun to meet these new people, not to mention a nice growing experience for me.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-47919317354531010392013-08-20T07:22:34.940-04:002013-08-20T07:22:34.940-04:00Congratulations on the new apartment!
I like that...Congratulations on the new apartment!<br /><br />I like that you're seeing Jason again. Time should be spent with those who really move us. Good luck with the dating scene. :)mail4roseynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-18202000070149541542013-08-20T05:00:49.942-04:002013-08-20T05:00:49.942-04:00Oh, I love tattooed men!
It's good that the o...Oh, I love tattooed men! <br />It's good that the online dating is working out for you. It hasn't bee so good for me, I'm afraid.<br />It looks like someone will have some sexy time soon :) Good!<br />Good luck with the house.SingleandDivorcednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-42046641551396063912013-08-20T00:44:46.488-04:002013-08-20T00:44:46.488-04:00Its great that you're having so much fun and m...Its great that you're having so much fun and meeting different people! Live life to the fullest! Max should be doing that too, but he'll have to figure that out for himself, or with a little help from his friends.Angel the Alienhttp://diaryofanalien1.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com