tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post2295456012133130690..comments2023-07-04T09:58:32.905-04:00Comments on My Tales of Life and Love After Divorce: Why Do I Want to Make Out With Some Guys But Not Others? The Mystery of Chemistry!Divorced Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01740271601866523220noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-66307152407309091722014-05-06T13:33:46.532-04:002014-05-06T13:33:46.532-04:00Thank you for reading and sharing your entry. Rela...Thank you for reading and sharing your entry. Related to your idea that we might not engage with a date because another might be a swipe away, see this guest post: http://www.divorcedkat.com/2014/02/guest-post-how-algorithms-make-it-easy.htmlDivorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-83115277830209288532014-05-06T10:45:40.630-04:002014-05-06T10:45:40.630-04:00Good luck with the search - not sure what your cha...Good luck with the search - not sure what your chances are of finding *everything* in the same package, but I guess you'll enjoy looking. <br /><br />I hope you don't mind my mentioning my own blog here - if you do, I guess this post just won't show up - but I wrote a post a while back about settling/holding out for The One that seems quite pertinent: http://www.womanology.co.uk/folder/?p=1513Andy Bodlehttp://www.womanology.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-7582039880355366912014-05-05T10:12:55.951-04:002014-05-05T10:12:55.951-04:00Thanks Melanie!Thanks Melanie!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-30338616203822131932014-05-03T17:34:39.958-04:002014-05-03T17:34:39.958-04:00I went through this whole thing of wanting certain...I went through this whole thing of wanting certain aspects of different guys I knew to encompass the one true, perfect guy. Damn, it would be nice to have the perfect guy wouldn't it!<br /><br />I love the way you describe everything, so funny but with that tinge of truth. :PMelaniehttp://writealoud.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-50441440762691784632014-05-01T09:42:13.620-04:002014-05-01T09:42:13.620-04:00Hahaha glad my nonsense is entertaining you! One o...Hahaha glad my nonsense is entertaining you! One of these days, I hope I'll actually meet someone who's boyfriend-worthy! ;)Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-42166974869032783272014-04-30T10:45:46.412-04:002014-04-30T10:45:46.412-04:00It's fun with the chemistry grows. That's ...It's fun with the chemistry grows. That's what I'm expecting to happen -- it won't be crazy chemistry, but a spark will be there... and it'll grow because of a real connection.Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-57165446347276430392014-04-30T10:44:28.299-04:002014-04-30T10:44:28.299-04:00It's particularly interesting with online dati...It's particularly interesting with online dating because you truly don't know if there are sparks until you're face to face. That's why I hate messaging back and forth endlessly -- let's hang out!Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-50944981109463516842014-04-30T10:43:49.428-04:002014-04-30T10:43:49.428-04:00I always think of personality is key... then why d...I always think of personality is key... then why do I still want to ride Jason?! I don't particularly like his personality!<br />Crazy stuff, right?Divorced Katnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-21371726965434048312014-04-29T20:39:53.378-04:002014-04-29T20:39:53.378-04:00I had gone out with one or two guys that were rath...I had gone out with one or two guys that were rather good looking, educated and put-together but the chemistry wasn't highly crackling. For a while I was seeing a guy off-and-on who was neither great looking nor the best I've had in bed but he had a playful sense of humor, was intelligent and I found him comfortable to be around. <br />When I first viewed the BF's online dating profile I thought he was an average looking guy and our short message exchanges were enjoyable enough online. Then the first time we met for drinks we spent 4+ hours talking, walking, drinking, and more talking. I didn't expect to enjoy him as much as I did; the chemistry was definitely there but it was subtle. The more time we spent together the more the chemistry strengthened and the more we got to know each other. Some people (myself included) take a while to break out of their shell and relax with others.Anna Dollnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1883263011548393946.post-81837597266506586742014-04-29T19:47:50.883-04:002014-04-29T19:47:50.883-04:00Chemistry always has fascinated me. I've met w...Chemistry always has fascinated me. I've met women online that on screen seem amazing and I'm totally into but when I meet them in real life, there is zero chemistry. Then I would hang out with friends and be introduced to a women that I would never consider dating and we have instant chemistry. It totally boggles the mind.Don @ HowYouCanFindLovenoreply@blogger.com